Korean baths were scalding hot and once you were tenderized, she would scrub you with a sand paper glove until all the dirt from your skin was lifted and left a ring around the tub.
I would stretch my legs to the edges of the tub anytime she tried to give me a bath refusing to touch the hot water.
But there was this one time the neighbor asked my brother and I if we wanted to play a game.
He asked my brother to keep a look out for anyone because he would play the guard.
Then behind the wall, I pulled down my pants and he said crazy things.
That evening I came to my grandma and asked for a bath.
I never cried once.